California Dreaming: The Life of Dr. Gabe Veas
April 23, 2008 by Dr. Gabe Veas
However, they also had fears. Fears that kept many of their relatives in the so-called safety and comfort of the old country, where they could fall back on the security that the traditional way of life in the motherland had to offer. Although these pioneers were scared of the unknown, not knowing the language here, or what exactly to expect when they would arrive, refused to let those fears stop them.
I must admit that my family in the United States is humble. While previously my grandmother sold fruit as a street vendor, in some respects things have not changed that much economically for some in the family. Now, I have family living in trailer parks. My family is not made up of the wealthy, but they have pride. The family worked hard and made sacrifices. Some even dared to dream big, in the process became college graduates, while others chose to serve the community in the fields of education, medicine, banking, automotives, and the military just to name a few. Some family members are even positive leaders in the community.
Unfortunately, some of family members also fell into the traditions the neighborhoods that they grew up in. Some have broken the law, gone to prison, been addicted to drugs, got divorced, among other things. Some fell into a lifestyle that did not value the opportunities that were before them and became high school drop-outs. These family members took things for granted, like caring teachers, free schools, and libraries. They did not live up to their potential! Overall, my family may have regrets, but they did try their best to stick together and make a difference.
Based upon my upbringing, I realized the truth that each person, individually, will have to choose whether or not to follow the positive traditions or the negative traditions of their heritage, neighborhood, and family. I am dedicated to preaching that, “just because things have been done a certain way, doesn’t mean that it has to continue.”
With the support of a few in my family, I embarked to put my money where my mouth is. Despite those in my community who questioned my quest for academic excellence as some sort of sign that he was a sell-out, I was motivated to do well in school so that he could one day help others more effectively. I was one of the only guys from my high school, which was mostly Hispanic to go to a university. Opportunities then opened up for me to get more involved in film through a great program at my school. This is where I learned how to use a video camera and do video editing among other things.
At this point my mind for scholarship became more evident when I was awarded a research scholarship to Wheaton College in Illinois. On my arrival back in California I made my first academic presentation at APU’s Common Day of Learning. Next, I received a masters degree from the Fuller Theological Seminary. Just as Martin Luther King Jr., one of my main role-models, my life’s work is grounded in a faith tradition.
Following this, I was able to graduate from the University of Southern California with my doctorate degree in educational psychology. In the end, I believe that unlike some in my community who chose to go the wrong way then ended up back on track, I have chosen to take the road less traveled. By choosing to do things right, I have sought to provide a different track for others who follow my example. I believe that my life and message appeal not just to those who are on the peripheries as habitual criminals, but also those who are on the fence who need encouragement to pursue the positive, as well as those who are doing great, in need of affirmation.
For the past five years I have been able to serve as a mentor to inner-city college students. Most of them were the first in their family to attend college. They all had the odds stacked against them, to do well and had giants standing in their way. All of them were either African-American or Hispanic. I continue to regularly meet with each of these guys once a week to stay on top of them, in order to ensure that they are doing well in life.
I also still works for this organization and I am deeply connected to their lives and their neighborhoods. I have also been able to speak at various universities, providing practical advice to first-generation college students. In the end, I hope to broaden individuals’ view of the world, in order for them to see new possibilities for their lives.
